tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7513236913461668571.post5536669427764748783..comments2024-02-20T03:51:07.321-05:00Comments on Singletude: A Positive Blog for Singles: "She Says vs. He Says: Do Girls Really Like Dating Jerks?": A Singletude ResponseClever Elsiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16418117983991542947noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7513236913461668571.post-65762740254020311702008-03-05T19:48:00.000-05:002008-03-05T19:48:00.000-05:00Bobby: I do think you're right that a poor sense o...<B>Bobby</B>: I do think you're right that a poor sense of self-worth is sometimes to blame for tolerating a jerk, but also, as you suggested, most of us are good-hearted and try to give others the benefit of the doubt. And, as you acknowledged, we <I>want</I> to believe that we've found a great girl or guy this time, so we move forward and hope we're right. In most cases, I think it's natural Clever Elsiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16418117983991542947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7513236913461668571.post-38494470653005201942008-03-03T18:12:00.000-05:002008-03-03T18:12:00.000-05:00Well, I have to hand it to you Elsie, yet another ...Well, I have to hand it to you Elsie, yet another sure hit. You know, it would probably be better off if you and I disagreed on something from time to time to give those other readers another view or some such nonsense, but the fact of the matter is I just agree with you. And off all the aspects that attract women to the ‘jerk’ is the confidence. Someone who will step out and act. This is, as farWizardryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10180287388143837392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7513236913461668571.post-89359327656877310182008-03-03T09:34:00.000-05:002008-03-03T09:34:00.000-05:00Interesting response Elsie!Quite an interesting pe...Interesting response Elsie!<BR/><BR/>Quite an interesting perspective on the "Jerk factor" as I call it. I think it all goes back to knowing and liking ourselves and being honest about it. Unfortunately, sometimes this goes out the window because of the longing for a relationship and the need to be loved.<BR/><BR/>You know what may be even more interesting about the jerk factor? Possibly it's bobbyboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15941342429838457419noreply@blogger.com